Valerie’s House recently held a special Prince & Princess Party at our Fort Myers Family is Forever Home, creating a night filled with joy, laughter, and magical memories for grieving children and families in Southwest Florida. This enchanted evening allowed our kids to feel truly special, celebrating childhood while being surrounded by a caring community. Thanks to our wonderful sponsors and donors, every detail—from crafts to treats—helped make this a magical experience.
Valerie's House is thrilled to announce that our Founder and CEO, Angela Melvin, has received the prestigious 2024 “Nonprofit Leader of the Year” award from The Community Foundation of Southwest Florida! At the same awards ceremony, our Board Chair, Mike McMurray, was honored as “Board Member of the Year,” recognizing their exceptional leadership and dedication to supporting grieving families in Southwest Florida.
The Calusa Sportsman Foundation has once again demonstrated its unwavering commitment to the children and families of Southwest Florida, raising an extraordinary $177,000 at the fourth annual Inshore Benefit held on September 6-7, 2024. This event, hosted at The Westin Cape Coral Resort at Marina Village, benefited both Valerie’s House and the Boys & Girls Clubs of Lee County, helping these organizations continue their missions of providing essential services to children and families in need.
At Valerie’s House, we understand that grief is a deeply personal journey, and the ways people remember lost loved ones vary greatly. One meaningful way many express their love and remembrance is through memorial tattoos. In our Tattooed Grief episode of the Grieve Love Heal podcast, part of Season 3, we explore the powerful impact of grief-inspired tattoos as symbols of love, loss, and resilience.
Valerie’s House is thrilled to celebrate several of our key supporters being recognized as finalists in the 2024 Industry Appreciation Awards! This prestigious event, hosted by the Horizon Foundation, Horizon Council, and Lee County Economic Development Office, honors local businesses that contribute to the growth and success of Lee County.
We are honored to announce that Valerie’s House has received the Governor’s Faith and Community Initiative Certificate of Recognition, acknowledging our commitment to supporting vulnerable children and families across Florida.
At Valerie’s House, Omar and Rebecca Zucco are making a profound impact as group facilitators, helping grieving families find support and healing. Their shared commitment to the mission of Valerie’s House reflects the power of connection and the importance of grief counseling for both children and caregivers.
Grief is a powerful journey, and for Heather Tharpe Moorhead and Hailey Tharpe, their world changed forever when they lost their beloved husband and father, Matt, to a sudden heart attack in 2014. Hailey was just six years old at the time, and their lives were turned upside down. Seeking grief support, they found hope at Valerie’s House, a children’s grief center that provides emotional healing for grieving families.
At Valerie’s House, healing and helping go hand in hand. One person who truly embodies this belief is Janette L'Heureux, President of the Fort Myers Chapter of the Ladies Executive Golf Society (#LEGS). After the loss of her son, Josh, Janette found her own healing through volunteering at Valerie’s House, supporting grieving families in Southwest Florida.
In October 2024, Valerie's House will unveil a new Heart Memorial at the Fort Myers Family is Forever Home. This unique memorial, designed by Marcy Turner, serves as a powerful tribute to those we've lost and offers grieving families a way to honor their loved ones.
The highlight of the weekend wasn’t just about reeling in fish. It was about the connections formed and the community that came together. As the sun set, participants gathered for the Awards Dinner to celebrate the day’s successes and honor the event’s mission to give back. The live auction and festivities provided additional opportunities to contribute to Valerie’s House and the Boys & Girls Clubs of Lee County, with the funds directly supporting our efforts to help children heal.
Valerie’s House was honored to be one of the beneficiaries of the 2024 Calusa Sportsman Foundation Inshore Benefit, a weekend filled with incredible memories. One standout moment was when several of our teens had the opportunity to fish with world-renowned Captain James Marko, also known as Goliath Fishing. With a large social media following and his own ESPN show, Captain James is a household name in the fishing community.
On Friday, August 30th, Lennar presented Valerie’s House with a $50,000 donation, continuing their incredible support for grieving families in Southwest Florida. Lennar has been a major partner in making our Family is Forever Fort Myers Home a reality, and their contribution is helping us expand our programs and services.
Discover how Valerie’s House helped Aniyah Celestine find purpose after the loss of her mother. Aniyah’s story of resilience and her journey to become a nurse anesthetist is a powerful testament to the healing and support provided by Valerie’s House.
Discover a heartwarming art exhibit at the Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, showcasing artwork created by children from Valerie’s House as they express their grief, memories, and hope for the future. Visit before the display ends in 2024.
Losing a child is a heartbreaking experience, one that leaves parents grappling with immense grief. For many grandparents in Southwest Florida, this sorrow is deepened by the responsibility of stepping into a parenting role once more, raising their grandchildren. While this new reality brings its own challenges, it also reveals a remarkable strength and resilience that these grandparents possess. With the right support, they can find new hope and purpose in their roles.
I'm in an all-moms group. And I remember leaving the first meeting of that group and kind of taking an exhale. When you're going through grief, those are really great moments because you're always feeling like you're holding your breath. I just remember going (breathes out)... And I remember thinking, ‘Oh my goodness, these are people who are having the same thoughts on a daily basis, moment to moment, that I’m having.
"I can say that I was very scared three years ago", explained Hayden. "I felt very alone. And now – I'm not scared. I know that I'm not the only person going through this. I have a lot of friends who have gone through very similar things. And I'm a lot stronger."
Before my dad passed away, I would hope and look for those moments (rare at times) when I actually got to spend time with my dad. Just him and me… no bratty brother stealing his attention from me. It was just he and I. It was the same experience with my mom. Time was so awesome when It was just she and I. There was nothing that would make me feel more like I belonged.
November is National Children’s Grief Awareness Month. At Valerie’s House, children's grief awareness is recognized every day. However, to people outside of Valerie’s House, the feelings of grieving children can easily be underestimated or misunderstood. For this reason, it is important to inform people how deeply grief can effect a child.
One of the most difficult things to do with our children who are going through grief is to help them regulate their emotions. You can have the smartest, most amazingly talented child in the world, but if they are going through grief, their intellect is “out the window” because the innate sense of survival, along with their emotions of safety and security, is their number one goal. This is the main reason why their emotional regulation is very difficult to control.
Over time the meaning of Memorial Day has been overshadowed by cookouts, parties, big sales, and a long weekend to kick off summer. While we can appreciate the fun things that come along with this time of year, it’s important for us to recognize those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.
There is nothing quite as fun as reaching a small goal in a game with your closest rivals, your family members, before they do.
“PASS GO and COLLECT $200!” “WHOO HOO!!!” you shout as your sibling’s face gets jealous for a second!
These times together as a family give much more than momentary doses of “feel-good.” Games can actually strengthen family bonds for the better.
She’s an Valerie’s House entrepreneur with a bright future ahead of her.
At only ten years old, this Valerie’s House- Fort Myers child started her own jewelry-making business to save money for her future.
Nataliya attends group night on Tuesday nights to grieve the death of her sister and grandmother.
She started making handcrafted jewelry in June 2022 and has seen great growth since her debut in the community.
What do Spiderman, Batman, Superman, and Disney princesses Anna, Elsa, Belle, and Jasmine have in common? (Besides being popular Halloween costumes and beloved heroes). They have all lost their parent(s). These larger-than-life characters experienced a tragedy that each of our children and teens at Valerie’s House knows all too well.
Traditions, big or small, are an important part of our lives. Whether it’s a tradition of having Sunday pancakes, an annual trip, or a holiday celebration, these meaningful rituals connect us through the actions we take together. As a result, we grow to love and rely on them as a comforting constant in our lives.
When we lose a loved one, it feels like we have lost a part of what makes these practices so special.
Students, teachers, and parents everywhere are gearing up for another school year, and this can bring a variety of feelings and emotions for children who are grieving the loss of a loved one.
As the grown-ups in children’s lives, we want to be as aware and prepared as possible to create an environment in which our children who are grieving can feel safe to feel their feelings.
Here in sunny southwest Florida, summertime often comes with trips to the beach, water park, lake, and other outdoor fun. The routine and schedule of being in school have changed, and this change can be welcomed but may also be hard. For families grieving the death of someone they love, these cheery sunshine-filled activities may not feel good, and that is okay.
Did you know that for about $3.50 a day, or $100 a month, you can help Valerie’s Houe provide grief support to a child for a little over a year? The Friends of Valerie Monthly Giving Club allows its members to spread their donations throughout the year and make a big impact.
We’re thrilled to introduce Four Questions with Friends of Valerie’s House, a new series that gives an inside look at the inspiring people who support our mission. Each segment highlights personal stories, connections to grief, and uplifting memories with Valerie’s House.